Reminder Week 21 – Cultural Appropriation Dialogue Sunday (and #endSARS)


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Hi friends,

We are so excited to see any and all of you for a dialogue this Sunday night to talk about Cultural Appropriation, this video, and the ways we can work towards cultural appreciation that doesn’t make a mockery of someone else’s identities or traditions. Invite any friends who might be interested in a candid, shame-free but accountability-inducing conversation. 


  1. Name a time you, or something about you, felt like the butt of someone else’s joke. How did it make you feel? 
  2. Have you ever dressed in a way that appropriated another culture or identity? 
  3. What are your thoughts on the distinction between dressing as a character versus a caricature? (Think: dressing as a Geisha vs. dressing as Mulan or dressing as Pablo Escobar vs. dressing as a drug dealer). 
  4. How can we tell our family, friends, or even strangers that their costume choices may be causing harm in a way that invites reflection instead of indignance?
  5. How can we learn from and even emulate other cultures in an ethical and appreciative manner when we see parts that we really like? (ie. a style of dress, an artform, a type of dance, etc.)


Meeting ID: 731 4249 2884


The Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS) is a faction of the Nigerian police force that was developed nearly three decades ago to “prevent robberies” in the nation. However, the unit is highly militarized and officers of the organization target any young person with nice possessions, practice mock executions on them, sexually assault them, and sometimes kill. In fact, Amnesty International has found at least 85 abuses associated with the group since 2017. 

October 11, 2020, the Nigerian government announced that SARS was dissolved and officers would be deployed to other forces. This sparked massive backlash from demonstrators who called for former SARS officers not to be rehired. On Tuesday, protestors took to the streets again in Lekki Toll Gate Plaza in Lagos, Nigeria. The crowd sang the national anthem as “security forces” opened fire, killing 12 and injuring hundreds. 

You can help by donating to mutual aid funds arising out of Nigeria. We’re supporting Assata Collective as they send funds directly to queer and trans Nigerian activists on the ground in Lagos. You can donate via paypal at:

Wait… but how is this about racism?

Remember when Notre Dame burnt down and $835 million dollars was raised overnight to rebuild the building? Nigerian youth activists have been calling for international support since 2017, fighting for their literal lives, and gaining almost no traction outside of social media. There is some racism embedded in our preferences toward “relatable” nations’ crises compared to those that feel “foreign.”

We could say a lot about the role of imperialism in the development of Africa, the way the nations were divided by arbitrary lines drawn by Europens who hardly accounted for the individual cultures when drawing them; how much of the violence that has emerged from Africa is directly related to Western interventions. And we could say a LOT about how Western media is biased against stories coming out of Africa or about the African diaspora as a whole, but we’ll save all of this for a separate newsletter. For now, we will sum it up as this: Black lives matter means they matter everywhere. 


Alright team, we’ll see you Sunday! Have a safe and healthy weekend.

In solidarity,
Ellie, Emily, and Hayden

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